Strive

Every day strive to be better. Better at your weaknesses. Everyone has weakness so it is up to you to figure out what is it. It is a big to accept your own weaknesses. And the goal is to improve on them. Write down your goals and put it on your mirror or door. A reminder what you are working towards.

One of my weaknesses is that I tend to care too much. It is okay to care but caring too much for someone can be a crutch to the person and myself. In that case, we both have to help each other to be beneficial for each other. Too much of anything is not good, so this is a prime example of it. I try to care but not over do it. It is hard but that’s life, just got to find ways to find a tool to get better at it.

So find your weakness and try to get better at it one day at a time. It can be any kind of weakness. Maybe it may be you’re out of shape, you can’t dribble with your less dominant hands, you’re not as quick, it can be anything just pick and get better at it. It is like a game once you get better at one thing, I bet you be addicted and want to see other things you can get better at.

Get better at things. Brainy Versatility.

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Having a Positive Mindset in Life No Matter What You are Going Through (Fighting Through It)

fightingthru.pngWhen I write my life experience, mostly is about the good quality you have to have in life that I see in other people. It is mostly about my experience from the heart. It is a way to vent out my thoughts. In life, we all  feel down for several reasons. Yes, it hurt, yeah, you might feel down. At the end of the day, you have to get over it and keep it moving. Everything happens for a reason. The most important thing is, to be honest and to act normal; and don’t let it bother you. One bad thing happens because of that incident causes other unfavorable things to happen because you’re not thinking right or your day brings how your mood is. You feel good then your day is going to be good. Bad then your day is mostly likely to be bad. Point of the story is, how you feel is in your mind and it comes to reality. If you have to act normal so be it, because the feeling of feeling bad itself can allow other unfavorable things to happen. It is not easy, I know, but you think positive and positive will happen.

You know when you want something so bad, whether from work, school or achieving a goal; and you keep trying and trying and you feel so close to it? But it’s not yet happening. I mean, IT WILL HAPPEN. Support it. Claim it. You should see my face when I said that, IT WILL HAPPEN..SUPPORT IT…CLAIM IT. I am not playing face. All you need is that someone to believe in you. My opportunity will come and I will be thankful and off to work I go on it. I have this goal of helping people around the world and it is not as easy as it sounds. The feeling of not getting an opportunity makes one feel down. Some people feel down and do nothing just stay there and sink in it. Some eat food and some sleep during this times. At times like this, I want to be left alone to think and see what my next game plan is and who I can get advice from to accomplish this goal. Also, I have to put this in capital letters and BOLD words. JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE HAVING A BAD DAY DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD MAKE SOMEONE ELSE DAY BAD. That is selfish and please find a better way to vent out.

I always make it a point if something doesn’t go my way, that I would not allow that to mess with someone else day. In fact, I want the person’s day I encounter to be good. I don’t want him or her to feel the feeling I was feeling at the time. It is good to vent out in ways that doesn’t affect anyone in a bad way. If you have someone with you that cares about you, it makes the situation better. However, people who genuinely care are hard to find or encounter. Family can help too. You feel better letting it all out in a positive way. For some people, writing and blogging is a form of therapy for them. Use it to your advantage. I am venting now. Don’t get it twisted at my lowest times is when I am the most sharpest which is understandable, because that sharpness is what I use to get out of the situation and find ways to makes things better. In life, there is always a way. Yeah I feel down at a particular time, but am still functioning. You can’t get down too much on things. Things happen in life for a reason; and with events in life, there are good and bad. Take the good from it and learn from the bad.

Yeah, you hurt but you have to show you got heart and keep pushing. Keep pushing. Let it make you work harder. This is coming from the heart and experience. Whatever your goal is, well, just because you haven’t reach it yet doesn’t mean to give up. You don’t give up; this is your passion. You don’t give it up that easy. You better go out there and think of strategies to get better. Fight for it. Fight for what your passion is. I am fighting for mine and yeah, I will get there. There might be bumps on the road, but something worth having in life is worth fighting for. So I am fighting. Thank you all for listening to me venting out. Salute. Respect. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings. We are human, so forget that. Grrr! I want to be tough or am tough. You are human so you have emotions. Just don’t be too emotional. KEEP IT MOVING AND GRINDING. Make people know you serious about your passion. Put some respect on it. Find ways how you can put some respect on it and show people you really passionate about it then act on it.

Show your emotions because its normal. Keep pushing. Respect. Be you. Be Versatile. Believe in yourself. Be Adaptive. Thanks for reading and coming with me on this journey. Brainy Versatility.

Life just Life

Learning from life on a day to basis. Turkey day learnage. Man what had happened was in life you make decisions. You know what you think is right in your mind. Man when you make the right move or the right call you feel like yeah am the man or woman depending on your gender. But when you make that wrong move man or woman can it hit hard. Some take it well and other doesn’t but in life you get hit day after day just got to bounce back.

Life isn’t about the hits you take back how you recover. You going to recover like a Gangster grrrr or like a baby. This lesson here is about making the decision that didn’t go your way and how you deal with it. Everyone has a right to be down but not for long. Release that emotion and get back to work. Get back to living life. Life is a process some get to their goals quicker than others are, but as long as you get, there is all that matters. Be open-minded look into every side before making a decision.

Life is about the smallest details the one no one pays attention to. Find your smallest details and work on it. It’s like a guy with a girl he likes if he really likes her just pay attention to her. Pay attention to the smallest details with that she will know how you feel and you will get her heart. Similar to paying attention to the smallest details in life and you get your goal. But you have to be genuine about it.

Expand your mind. Be adaptive. Be Brainy Versatility.