Sh**t Happens in life but they should not define who you are.

Learn about other personal experience about not allowing certain life circumstances define you as an individual.

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Got blogger’s block on a blog lol. I don’t even know if that is a thing.

Get rid of my blogger’s block with a shower. I found a new remedy for bloggers block aha

Now let’s get to business.

I have been talking about positive motivational here for around a week now but life is not all sugars and crème. Life has sour sides as well. We going, to be honest here and look at both negative and positive side in life. This is coming from the past and current personal experience.

In life, you will be put down. Get call name. Get picked on. Get told you not going to be nothing. You not going to be Sh**t. You can be called worst than all of what I just mentioned. Yeah, most people will want to get mad and be vengeful to people in life. Yes. They can be mad and they have the right to but what is all that anger going to do for you? You are just hurting yourself more. That is unhealthy.

I have been told or been through some of the things I just said above. I should be this angry person or sad but my heart can take it.Yes, I could be this angry person and just be mad at people. I could be this sad person. I can be mean mugging people but to be honest I don’t have time for that.  Anger or sadness are not beneficial to me. I try to minimize negativity in life. The words may hurt but in a strange way negativity just MOTIVATE ME. I just laugh. I laugh because I just laugh. People do hate me or people that try to be positive. All I have to say about that is JUST LAUGH. They will get mad more. Just laugh.

Sh**t will happen in life but get over it. Don’t be all down on yourself. Don’t be weak. Just mind your business and keep It moving. Laugh. Laughing is good for you. Your Brain will LOVE IT!

THIS IS NOT MEANT TO BE SAD WHATEVER AM JUST TELLING LIFE EVENTS. Just don’t let WORDS Define YOU! Have some confidence in yourself. One thing people always tell me is I am confident. Too Confident. Cocky. That is just me. Don’t be weak! This is life. Sh**t happens! You just have to handle each situation accordingly.

Brainy Versatility. Be Adaptive.

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The key to overcoming negativity and turning it into an inspirational positive story.

Come and Read about how to turn bad situation into good outcome.

Inspiration ways to have the will to change a bad situation into a positive outcome.

Based on my personal experience and wisdom I learned through life.

In life, you get down. You get weak. You feel like giving up. Especially when something does not go your way. In life, you cannot be weak. In life, let your negative point be your strongest point. I am stubborn even though I won’t really admit it lol. In all seriousness, I use it to my advantage. The stubbornness is where I get the discipline. The will to turn negative into positive. Everyone has the will and it does not have to be stubbornness it can be anything you want it to be to keep you going. It can be family, friends, love one, sports, work, people that keep you going. Anything to help keep your head up.

 When I go through something negative regarding life, school, or anything in particular. YEAH, initially I am sad but I find ways to do better. So next time I will turn that negative experience into a positive one. When you are down, PLEASE don’t stay down. Get up and keep swinging. It makes me sad to see a person down and he or she does not swing. I feel like tears coming down my eyes writing this. Because, where is your heart and will to overcome your struggles? You have to swing. I do not care if you miss at least you swing. The key to turning negative into positive is your will. You saying to yourself: I am going to prove them wrong or prove myself right. It all start with YOURSELF. The moment you decide to turn your negative situation into a positive one is the moment you get a pen with a paper and write down your goals day by day. When you write something down you are more likely to make it happen. Turn something hard into something simple by breaking it down to its simplest term. Don’t make it harder than it is. If your goal is to be happy. Write down what you want and need to make you happy. Then, go after it. It may be hard for you at first but you will eventually overcome the challenge.

Just think about you being a boxing match and you get knock down. What are you going to do? Just lay down? or are you going to give it your all? As long as you give it your all, no matter if it’s good or bad you know you stuck in there and fought. Life is about HEART. If you see my previously posts, you see me talk about HEART a lot. If you have a heart then you can turn the negative into positive easily. If you don’t have heart well fake it until you make it.

This is the life so you can’t be weak. Nothing comes easy. You want it well go get it. You Work+have to have that feistiness to you. The mindset has to be right. You cannot always think negative then think positive will happen. Think positive as much as possible because you are what energy you put around you. If you cannot be positive then be neutral.

For example, I do not like to be too happy because I learned that is not good for me. It is like being too prideful in a way. So, in any situation, I think positively or neutral most of the time. Of course, you will be sad sometimes that is normal just go through the phase get it out your system and get back to work. Work as in going back to attacking life and making it the best you can.

 Get that work in. Turning negative into Positive is not going to happen by you being down on yourself. So get your butt up and do something. Whatever it is you are doing something. Anytime, I feel like a bad day is coming up. I always make it a MUST to go do something outside. Feeling sorry for yourself is not going to make anything better. Go do something productive and fight it away.

The main points to turning a negative thing into a positive one are just having the will, discipline and goal settings to do better. Use the negativity as a tool of motivation to better yourself. In every bad situation, there is always something good in there. Therefore, don’t be down on yourself just soak it in even though it is hard and search, locate and destroy that negativity. Turn that sad pain you having into joy by working hard and setting goals to be better. Everything happens for a reason. Either the reason is going to make you good or bad. That is up to you to decide. Get that burning fire and don’t let anything bad put you so down you can’t turn it into positive.

 

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10 ADVICE FOR NEW BLOGGERS: HOW TO STAY MOTIVATED FOR SUCCESS IN YOUR BLOGGING JOURNEY

These reasons are from my personal experience as a rookie blogger.  I am sharing how I stay motivated to grow my site during beginning stages. In addition, this how I stay motivated for success.  You will learn tips about how your site can grow each day.  How to get record-setting views, followers, likes, being mentioned by an influencer blogger and much more. Those are just the top features you will encounter as an up and coming blogger following this advice.

Without staying focus and keeping your head on success. It is would be unlikely for a new site to grow each month. Stay Focus, appreciate, DON’T HATE ON OTHERS, Support and success will come your way.

WHAT KIND OF SUCCESS?

Every month you will be hitting new records in terms of revenues. I am going to show you what I did so you can know you are not ALONE. You are going to get some virtual help to show you how you can be on your way to success as a rookie blogger.

The beginning is not always easy. I know you want INSTANT success but this journey is not an easy one. From my experience, I made mistakes in term of using wrong traffic sources and going by social media site the wrong way. However, this post is for NEW BLOGGERS learning from others and my mistakes so they would AVOID those traps. Success is what I want for NEW BLOGGERS and all. Learning from others, personal mistakes should limit the traps out there for NEW BLOGGERS and make a path for success.

You have to be patience and keep working. THIS IS A PROGRESS. It took time for me to buy into being patient but once I did, I saw my site became to grow. Patience is the key.

Be the type of person that finish what you started. Therefore, if you started the blog site then your goal should be a success. One-track success mind. Give it all you got. Success will come.

Success tastes so delicious and appreciated when reached after working for it. You know what you did to get to that success. Therefore, for that, you appreciate it more. Treat your blog site as a baby so take care of it, feed it, bathe it, and show it some caring and love. Then, do more. Most of all, HAVE FUN. Success does not come easy. If you want success, you have to work for it. Therefore, with all that said these are the 10 motivating tips for NEW BLOGGERS to reach success. These tips are for success that will bring along the increase in traffic, generate more money, views, visitors and much more.

  1. BE PATIENT

As I said, the beginning is no joke. You will think this is easy and oh, I am going to make easy money or I am going to get so much visitors and followers. Easier said than done. Have patience because everything will happen you just have to stay focus and keep blogging. Go out there, have FUN on this journey, and let blogging goals handle itself for NOW. Just soak everything in and know your surroundings. LEARN you will reach success with having patient. I am talking from personal experience.

  1. STAY POSITIVE

You will feel like unmotivated. You will feel down. You will feel lost. Because you are not expecting the resulting, you set out to. There will be difficulties. My advice to you is always to keep your head up. It is not the end of the day. Head up and keep grinding. Peddle to the Metal. Tunnel vision on your goal. Write your goals down and work towards them. Get your pen and paper ready. JOT DOWN YOUR GOALS and make it more serious and realistic. Make a goal list every day as soon as you hit those goals you will start getting confidence as you go. You will begin to be more positive. Do not hate on others and always show support for others not just in blogging but also in life itself.  Get that negativity and hatred out your heart and STAY POSITIVE.

  1. INTERACT WITH FELLOW BLOGGERS

The way to grow in life and in blogging is to interact with people. In this case, interact with your fellow bloggers. Go out there do not be shy. Make some new friends. COMMENT, LIKE, SHARE, OR RE-BLOG SOME POSTS. Do something. Interacting is fun and it helps you and your fellow bloggers out. Interacting is a way to network and get your post along with your site out there to the public. So the more you interact with people then more known your blogger site will get. To put it in a better term: Network with your fellow bloggers. Plain and simple. The better off you are when you network with people. Be friendly and be yourself. Beware: some people do not like friendliness so just mind your business, be nice and keep it moving.

  1. SHOW SUPPORT

Show SUPPORT! This goes back to networking with people. The more support you show the more fun you will have. To be honest, Life is not about you, which applies to BLOGGING. BLOGGING is not about you or your blogs. It is about OTHERS. Most Fellow bloggers do not look out for one another. Do not be like them. FEW BLOGGERS SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER. YOU SHOULD ASSOCIATE YOURSELF WITH THEM. BLOGGERS LIKE DRAY0308 AND JAY COLBY.They support other bloggers and give them the opportunity to expand their posts on a bigger platform. Look out for one another so show support and you will get it back in return most of the time. Regardless if you get support back or not. You still should support one another. It is like a little family. Everyone can pick each other brain to grow and be a success as a blogger. As a rookie blogger, it is crucial to develop a support group that will be your backbone and helps you out when you are about to give up. SUPPORT IS VITAL in every aspect of especially in life and blogging WHICH IS WHY I WANT IT TO STICK IN YOUR MEMORY. In addition, some good supporter such as  Jeeshan an amazing writer with funny posts and inspiring posts. Also, Minnie a good smart up and coming blogger in her own right. Get to know supporters like them as well.

  1. MAKE FRIENDS OR FOLLOWERS

Go out there and make some friends or follower. Add people maybe they will add you back. New followers will give you an instant increase in your blog site. The more followers you have the higher the chance you have of making your views and visitor ranking increasing dramatically.   Follow each other and grow together.

TEAMWORK

MAKES THE

DREAM-WORK.     

  1. GET ADVICE FROM AN INFLUENCE BLOGGER

Talk a blogger with a popular page or influencer and get his or her idea on how to improve your site. Pros and cons. it is good because you are getting better in blogging for your followers and viewers. If you want to know one great influence blogger visit: MostlyBlogging by Janice Wald. She has tremendous ideas that which are proven to help your site grow. Go Subscribe to her and read her blogs. Her specialty is making people blogs site successful. Therefore, your site can be next.  Be careful with other sites that may land you in trouble. Take advice from a pro. MostlyBlogging is the site for you to go for your site growth. Get your pen and paper ready because her site is full of knowledge that most experienced bloggers might not even know about.

MOSTLYBLOGGING

THE SITE FOR

SUCCESS.            

  1. BE DEDICATED

Do not give up. Keep grinding. Keep Pushing. Always analyzing what is good or not. Do not slack.  This beginning stage is about trial and error. The most important part is you learn from it and keep putting in positive work. Be dedicated to promoting your site, editing your site, and supporting others. Show that you are consistent and you serious about raising your specific site to the top. It is a business after all either you doing it for fun or profit so take it seriously. BE DEDICATED!

  1. WORK ON YOUR BLOGGING CRAFT

If you want to get better and be a success, you have to work on your weaknesses. Therefore, work on your writing styles, grammar, formats, tags, pics, contents, organization, time management and much more. . Working on those crafts are associated with having good views, visitors and likes. So find ways to be a better blogger. This is a craft that you have so sharpen it and let it shine.

  1. LEARNING FROM OTHERS

Working on your crafts comes from being a sponge and learning from others. Learning does not have to be from your fellow bloggers. Learn from others posts online, pic, video, and sites. YouTube and other social media sites are good sites to learn about blogging. So learn from everyone especially the expert bloggers and ask for advice.

  1. MAKE BLOGGING FUN

Write about your passion. It makes blogging so much easier and fun. Bring others in your journey that share the same passion and throw a blogging party. Have fun while being cautious for some people that do not have good interest for your success. Don’t be too sensitive. Just enjoy the ride. Expand your mind and be versatile in everything you do.

Follow those 10 tips and you will be an up and coming successful blogger that is coming along. I know it’s going to be hard at first but remember to create some supporters around to make the process easier. Keep chopping on that wood. Eventually, you create something beautiful and successful.

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Having a Positive Mindset in Life No Matter What You are Going Through (Fighting Through It)

fightingthru.pngWhen I write my life experience, mostly is about the good quality you have to have in life that I see in other people. It is mostly about my experience from the heart. It is a way to vent out my thoughts. In life, we all  feel down for several reasons. Yes, it hurt, yeah, you might feel down. At the end of the day, you have to get over it and keep it moving. Everything happens for a reason. The most important thing is, to be honest and to act normal; and don’t let it bother you. One bad thing happens because of that incident causes other unfavorable things to happen because you’re not thinking right or your day brings how your mood is. You feel good then your day is going to be good. Bad then your day is mostly likely to be bad. Point of the story is, how you feel is in your mind and it comes to reality. If you have to act normal so be it, because the feeling of feeling bad itself can allow other unfavorable things to happen. It is not easy, I know, but you think positive and positive will happen.

You know when you want something so bad, whether from work, school or achieving a goal; and you keep trying and trying and you feel so close to it? But it’s not yet happening. I mean, IT WILL HAPPEN. Support it. Claim it. You should see my face when I said that, IT WILL HAPPEN..SUPPORT IT…CLAIM IT. I am not playing face. All you need is that someone to believe in you. My opportunity will come and I will be thankful and off to work I go on it. I have this goal of helping people around the world and it is not as easy as it sounds. The feeling of not getting an opportunity makes one feel down. Some people feel down and do nothing just stay there and sink in it. Some eat food and some sleep during this times. At times like this, I want to be left alone to think and see what my next game plan is and who I can get advice from to accomplish this goal. Also, I have to put this in capital letters and BOLD words. JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE HAVING A BAD DAY DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD MAKE SOMEONE ELSE DAY BAD. That is selfish and please find a better way to vent out.

I always make it a point if something doesn’t go my way, that I would not allow that to mess with someone else day. In fact, I want the person’s day I encounter to be good. I don’t want him or her to feel the feeling I was feeling at the time. It is good to vent out in ways that doesn’t affect anyone in a bad way. If you have someone with you that cares about you, it makes the situation better. However, people who genuinely care are hard to find or encounter. Family can help too. You feel better letting it all out in a positive way. For some people, writing and blogging is a form of therapy for them. Use it to your advantage. I am venting now. Don’t get it twisted at my lowest times is when I am the most sharpest which is understandable, because that sharpness is what I use to get out of the situation and find ways to makes things better. In life, there is always a way. Yeah I feel down at a particular time, but am still functioning. You can’t get down too much on things. Things happen in life for a reason; and with events in life, there are good and bad. Take the good from it and learn from the bad.

Yeah, you hurt but you have to show you got heart and keep pushing. Keep pushing. Let it make you work harder. This is coming from the heart and experience. Whatever your goal is, well, just because you haven’t reach it yet doesn’t mean to give up. You don’t give up; this is your passion. You don’t give it up that easy. You better go out there and think of strategies to get better. Fight for it. Fight for what your passion is. I am fighting for mine and yeah, I will get there. There might be bumps on the road, but something worth having in life is worth fighting for. So I am fighting. Thank you all for listening to me venting out. Salute. Respect. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings. We are human, so forget that. Grrr! I want to be tough or am tough. You are human so you have emotions. Just don’t be too emotional. KEEP IT MOVING AND GRINDING. Make people know you serious about your passion. Put some respect on it. Find ways how you can put some respect on it and show people you really passionate about it then act on it.

Show your emotions because its normal. Keep pushing. Respect. Be you. Be Versatile. Believe in yourself. Be Adaptive. Thanks for reading and coming with me on this journey. Brainy Versatility.

Attack your Goal until IT comes to LIFE!

ATTACK YOUR GOALS!  MOTIVATE YOURSELF! FOLLOW YOUR PLAN STEP BY STEP!

Remember when I said keeping working towards your goal. Show them you want it. Ask for advice. Talk to people that has been there. WRITE DOWN your goals. That is what I do. I met my goals. When it happened, I felt no feeling…it was weird. I worked hard for this and I saw the results. It is not that I am not excited because it has not sunk in yet. I am really going to go on this path. This Journey. I am going to be helping people around the world. I got a chance. Salute to those who believe in me. They people in me when I did not even believe in me. Not long ago I said be thankful for your opportunity good or bad. I am thankful. Now it is time for me to prepare myself for this journey. You might see me in your country. I had a feeling I was going to get a chance but I do not like to get too happy. My passion is giving light to shine now time to work hard and let the light shine. I will keep those we were with me close because without you all I probably will not be here. I will like to say THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

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It has not sink in yet. I still have some things I have to fix and handle. Time to start better myself more every day. I got my shot and I was under pressure. I clutch my shot. With seconds left, I between the legs took one hard dribble and went hard to the paint. Got to show people you are serious about your goal or passion. Keep working at it. Do not let anyone stop you. Haters going to hate but use that hate as motivation. Even though most times I was down during this process, I always had my head up and handle my business for the next opportunity. Everything happening so fast but I am handling it. One thing at a time. Shout out to my barber. He gave me that haircut to remember. That haircut was looking fresh. Attack your goal and keep knocking on that door till you knock it down or someone opens it. You got to go for what is yours you know. In a respectful way of course.

Have a mini notebook and jot done things that may help you out. Jot done everything. That is what I did and do. My experience through other experience. Always be prepared and do not go to a situation where you are not prepared. Preparation is the key. Talking to people and communication is big in life no matter what. You have to talk to people. Get to know people. Interact with them and have fun. I went after my goal and I got it. The mission is not done yet I have some ways to go but I got a chance. Someone believed in me. Thank you all for reading and taking notes. Special thanks to everyone who has been with me on this journey and the future.

Life is full of surprises. Be open. Be adaptive. Be Brainy Versatility.