Sh**t Happens in life but they should not define who you are.

Learn about other personal experience about not allowing certain life circumstances define you as an individual.

Come and learn along with leaving your input. Share some knowledge.

 

 

 

Got blogger’s block on a blog lol. I don’t even know if that is a thing.

Get rid of my blogger’s block with a shower. I found a new remedy for bloggers block aha

Now let’s get to business.

I have been talking about positive motivational here for around a week now but life is not all sugars and crème. Life has sour sides as well. We going, to be honest here and look at both negative and positive side in life. This is coming from the past and current personal experience.

In life, you will be put down. Get call name. Get picked on. Get told you not going to be nothing. You not going to be Sh**t. You can be called worst than all of what I just mentioned. Yeah, most people will want to get mad and be vengeful to people in life. Yes. They can be mad and they have the right to but what is all that anger going to do for you? You are just hurting yourself more. That is unhealthy.

I have been told or been through some of the things I just said above. I should be this angry person or sad but my heart can take it.Yes, I could be this angry person and just be mad at people. I could be this sad person. I can be mean mugging people but to be honest I don’t have time for that.  Anger or sadness are not beneficial to me. I try to minimize negativity in life. The words may hurt but in a strange way negativity just MOTIVATE ME. I just laugh. I laugh because I just laugh. People do hate me or people that try to be positive. All I have to say about that is JUST LAUGH. They will get mad more. Just laugh.

Sh**t will happen in life but get over it. Don’t be all down on yourself. Don’t be weak. Just mind your business and keep It moving. Laugh. Laughing is good for you. Your Brain will LOVE IT!

THIS IS NOT MEANT TO BE SAD WHATEVER AM JUST TELLING LIFE EVENTS. Just don’t let WORDS Define YOU! Have some confidence in yourself. One thing people always tell me is I am confident. Too Confident. Cocky. That is just me. Don’t be weak! This is life. Sh**t happens! You just have to handle each situation accordingly.

Brainy Versatility. Be Adaptive.

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10 ADVICE FOR NEW BLOGGERS: HOW TO STAY MOTIVATED FOR SUCCESS IN YOUR BLOGGING JOURNEY

These reasons are from my personal experience as a rookie blogger.  I am sharing how I stay motivated to grow my site during beginning stages. In addition, this how I stay motivated for success.  You will learn tips about how your site can grow each day.  How to get record-setting views, followers, likes, being mentioned by an influencer blogger and much more. Those are just the top features you will encounter as an up and coming blogger following this advice.

Without staying focus and keeping your head on success. It is would be unlikely for a new site to grow each month. Stay Focus, appreciate, DON’T HATE ON OTHERS, Support and success will come your way.

WHAT KIND OF SUCCESS?

Every month you will be hitting new records in terms of revenues. I am going to show you what I did so you can know you are not ALONE. You are going to get some virtual help to show you how you can be on your way to success as a rookie blogger.

The beginning is not always easy. I know you want INSTANT success but this journey is not an easy one. From my experience, I made mistakes in term of using wrong traffic sources and going by social media site the wrong way. However, this post is for NEW BLOGGERS learning from others and my mistakes so they would AVOID those traps. Success is what I want for NEW BLOGGERS and all. Learning from others, personal mistakes should limit the traps out there for NEW BLOGGERS and make a path for success.

You have to be patience and keep working. THIS IS A PROGRESS. It took time for me to buy into being patient but once I did, I saw my site became to grow. Patience is the key.

Be the type of person that finish what you started. Therefore, if you started the blog site then your goal should be a success. One-track success mind. Give it all you got. Success will come.

Success tastes so delicious and appreciated when reached after working for it. You know what you did to get to that success. Therefore, for that, you appreciate it more. Treat your blog site as a baby so take care of it, feed it, bathe it, and show it some caring and love. Then, do more. Most of all, HAVE FUN. Success does not come easy. If you want success, you have to work for it. Therefore, with all that said these are the 10 motivating tips for NEW BLOGGERS to reach success. These tips are for success that will bring along the increase in traffic, generate more money, views, visitors and much more.

  1. BE PATIENT

As I said, the beginning is no joke. You will think this is easy and oh, I am going to make easy money or I am going to get so much visitors and followers. Easier said than done. Have patience because everything will happen you just have to stay focus and keep blogging. Go out there, have FUN on this journey, and let blogging goals handle itself for NOW. Just soak everything in and know your surroundings. LEARN you will reach success with having patient. I am talking from personal experience.

  1. STAY POSITIVE

You will feel like unmotivated. You will feel down. You will feel lost. Because you are not expecting the resulting, you set out to. There will be difficulties. My advice to you is always to keep your head up. It is not the end of the day. Head up and keep grinding. Peddle to the Metal. Tunnel vision on your goal. Write your goals down and work towards them. Get your pen and paper ready. JOT DOWN YOUR GOALS and make it more serious and realistic. Make a goal list every day as soon as you hit those goals you will start getting confidence as you go. You will begin to be more positive. Do not hate on others and always show support for others not just in blogging but also in life itself.  Get that negativity and hatred out your heart and STAY POSITIVE.

  1. INTERACT WITH FELLOW BLOGGERS

The way to grow in life and in blogging is to interact with people. In this case, interact with your fellow bloggers. Go out there do not be shy. Make some new friends. COMMENT, LIKE, SHARE, OR RE-BLOG SOME POSTS. Do something. Interacting is fun and it helps you and your fellow bloggers out. Interacting is a way to network and get your post along with your site out there to the public. So the more you interact with people then more known your blogger site will get. To put it in a better term: Network with your fellow bloggers. Plain and simple. The better off you are when you network with people. Be friendly and be yourself. Beware: some people do not like friendliness so just mind your business, be nice and keep it moving.

  1. SHOW SUPPORT

Show SUPPORT! This goes back to networking with people. The more support you show the more fun you will have. To be honest, Life is not about you, which applies to BLOGGING. BLOGGING is not about you or your blogs. It is about OTHERS. Most Fellow bloggers do not look out for one another. Do not be like them. FEW BLOGGERS SUPPORT ONE ANOTHER. YOU SHOULD ASSOCIATE YOURSELF WITH THEM. BLOGGERS LIKE DRAY0308 AND JAY COLBY.They support other bloggers and give them the opportunity to expand their posts on a bigger platform. Look out for one another so show support and you will get it back in return most of the time. Regardless if you get support back or not. You still should support one another. It is like a little family. Everyone can pick each other brain to grow and be a success as a blogger. As a rookie blogger, it is crucial to develop a support group that will be your backbone and helps you out when you are about to give up. SUPPORT IS VITAL in every aspect of especially in life and blogging WHICH IS WHY I WANT IT TO STICK IN YOUR MEMORY. In addition, some good supporter such as  Jeeshan an amazing writer with funny posts and inspiring posts. Also, Minnie a good smart up and coming blogger in her own right. Get to know supporters like them as well.

  1. MAKE FRIENDS OR FOLLOWERS

Go out there and make some friends or follower. Add people maybe they will add you back. New followers will give you an instant increase in your blog site. The more followers you have the higher the chance you have of making your views and visitor ranking increasing dramatically.   Follow each other and grow together.

TEAMWORK

MAKES THE

DREAM-WORK.     

  1. GET ADVICE FROM AN INFLUENCE BLOGGER

Talk a blogger with a popular page or influencer and get his or her idea on how to improve your site. Pros and cons. it is good because you are getting better in blogging for your followers and viewers. If you want to know one great influence blogger visit: MostlyBlogging by Janice Wald. She has tremendous ideas that which are proven to help your site grow. Go Subscribe to her and read her blogs. Her specialty is making people blogs site successful. Therefore, your site can be next.  Be careful with other sites that may land you in trouble. Take advice from a pro. MostlyBlogging is the site for you to go for your site growth. Get your pen and paper ready because her site is full of knowledge that most experienced bloggers might not even know about.

MOSTLYBLOGGING

THE SITE FOR

SUCCESS.            

  1. BE DEDICATED

Do not give up. Keep grinding. Keep Pushing. Always analyzing what is good or not. Do not slack.  This beginning stage is about trial and error. The most important part is you learn from it and keep putting in positive work. Be dedicated to promoting your site, editing your site, and supporting others. Show that you are consistent and you serious about raising your specific site to the top. It is a business after all either you doing it for fun or profit so take it seriously. BE DEDICATED!

  1. WORK ON YOUR BLOGGING CRAFT

If you want to get better and be a success, you have to work on your weaknesses. Therefore, work on your writing styles, grammar, formats, tags, pics, contents, organization, time management and much more. . Working on those crafts are associated with having good views, visitors and likes. So find ways to be a better blogger. This is a craft that you have so sharpen it and let it shine.

  1. LEARNING FROM OTHERS

Working on your crafts comes from being a sponge and learning from others. Learning does not have to be from your fellow bloggers. Learn from others posts online, pic, video, and sites. YouTube and other social media sites are good sites to learn about blogging. So learn from everyone especially the expert bloggers and ask for advice.

  1. MAKE BLOGGING FUN

Write about your passion. It makes blogging so much easier and fun. Bring others in your journey that share the same passion and throw a blogging party. Have fun while being cautious for some people that do not have good interest for your success. Don’t be too sensitive. Just enjoy the ride. Expand your mind and be versatile in everything you do.

Follow those 10 tips and you will be an up and coming successful blogger that is coming along. I know it’s going to be hard at first but remember to create some supporters around to make the process easier. Keep chopping on that wood. Eventually, you create something beautiful and successful.

COMMENT, LIKE, AND SHARE BELOW TO FELLOW NEW BLOGGERS. Be Versatile. Be Driven. Be Adaptive. Brainy Versatility.

Salute! Thankful: Hugs and smiles in being thankful and keep working hard

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You always have to be honored when someone gives you an opportunity in life; opportunity to further your career. I was given that opportunity to further my career in helping people. Well in my case, the world and I say “stay positive and always be ready.” Opportunity is right around the corner. Opportunity could be 2 hours, 2 seconds, 2 minutes away or 1-2 weeks away. Either way, stay ready. I was ready and excited for my opportunity. I was thankful and I am still am. It was a good feeling; one good day I must say. A lot of knowledge shared and learned from instructors and students. I must say, I look good in a suit, LOL. Fresh hair cut. I told my barber to make me standout and he gave me a new look, LOL. He talking about with this haircut, I’ll get 2 or 3 more girls…LOL. My intentions for that haircut is not to get girls, but to be prepared for my opportunity. An opportunity I will be nervous and excited for, like everyone will be. Once I am in the game, the nervous goes away but the excitement is still there.

It is like a championship game. Of course, you get that nervous in you when you play that big game, everyone has it, even the superstars. I don’t know about you but in the 4th quarter I want the ball in my hand. I want to deliver for my team. I want to bring the trophy home. You have to be confident to do that — that I am. I am a confident individual just the way I was born. I don’t know about you, but when opportunity comes and that day comes to perform and I am in the game, the nervousness goes away and I am excited. Ready to bring energy to the team. Oh yeah, always know how to talk to people. For example, if you know someone is sensitive, well, give him or her some encouragement. Let him or her know you got this. I got confident in you. WE got confident in you. If someone can take the punches well, be a little harder on him or her to get the best out of them. Just know when not to push it over the top. If you feel pressure or attitude of him or her, just back off. I sound like a coach. I tell you one thing, I coach my team up. We be winning. Listen to me, we are going to win. But back to the mission of the post, you have to be thankful for every opportunity you have to progress in life.

I mean, being excited and full of energy for my opportunity that I had a feeling I didn’t know where it came from. A mentor, who is a physical therapist, told me, show them you want it. Show them you are hungry. YES! I am hungry and I want the whole plate full. They going to know I am hungry and I think that is what I delivered. It was a very thankful day; full of knowledge and that is what I like. I like to learn, so like a sponge, I will absorb all the knowledge in. Let it sink, then relax, then be thankful. Right now, my heart is speaking to you all. I am not even speaking. Feel like am going to cry. This is how thankful I am. The opportunity to further your career does not come easy, so when you get that chance…you shine. Let your smile come out. Go out and be yourself. Show them you’re hungry. Go and get your meal. That is what I am doing. I am thankful for all the mentors who I have for giving me ideas and advice how to achieve my goals. I am so thankful I can cry. #Respect. I worked for this. All you need is that one chance and when you get, I said when you get it, you better go out there DOMINATE! Make them know YOUR name. I can keep going on my heart has so much to say. All I know is, I am already to go to work and put in work. If you don’t know what put in work means. Well, when you busting your butt and being productive, well, that is putting in work. The beginning of a new beginning.

Always be thankful and show your true self. Your true self always shows when you think no one is watching. I am comfortable with my true self, because I know in my heart, even if I don’t know you, I will still take that bullet for you. Because I know my heart won’t tolerate not helping someone out when I can. So am good with me. With that, I will say this a letter to you, yes, you reading this. Thank you! Thank you very much for the opportunity to further my goals. It is not going to be easy, but as long as you have support along the way. You are good. You need a Strong back for that support. Salute and Respect. Thank you for reading! See you guys next time. Comment if you like don’t be shy. Do which ever you please to do. One thing I know, always be thankful and be ready to soak in some knowledge. Brainy Versatility!

How the Oscars Made my Night! Hercules! Hercules!

oscars1.pngI didn’t know the Oscar was this big. Excuse me here, don’t jump on me (LOL) for not knowing. It is good watching people be happy and adding accomplishments to their lives. In the case of Andrew Garfield, being nominated for best Actor in the Oscars…in his first nominated Oscar. What a day it must be for him. I know his whole family and friends are happy. All that hard work and just grinding is paying off. He got his chance and made the best out of it. Good hearing stories like that. I am sure it wasn’t an easy road for him, but he kept at it. Look at him now at the Oscar with all the stars — Salute. This is a living proof of opportunity meeting hard work. Shout out to all the nominees.

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On another good note, the Oscars giving equal opportunity to all colors. Life is about equality, being able to give the right for an opportunity. Good to see them changing the rules and look past race, well, I hope they look past race. I think, this is why some people aren’t fond of the Oscars as I found out. So, the Lion’s actor Dev Patel and Moonlight’s Mahershala Ali getting their first nomination at the Oscars. Special shout out to Dev Patel! He is there with his mom…aww! Touch heart 😀 Don’t hate (LOL), thats #respect. Patel and Ali fought for their chance and got it. Patel campaigned for having a role in the movie Lion and it is paying off. All his hard work is paying off. Same goes for Ali, he’s an impressive man and it shows he has good work ethic. Congratulations to Mahershala Ali on having his first daughter this week. Ali winning his first Oscar for Best Supporting Actor. He acted like he suppose to win the Oscar and he is the first Muslim to win the Oscars, which is hard to believe. Be always thankful, good or bad. I know, he is thankful.

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The way the Oscars end with La La Land wining Best Pictures, BUT they didn’t because Moonlight won it. Shout out to Moonlight cast getting some Oscars. I got to watch Moonlight. I recommend y’all to watch that film bacause it is so touching. All you need is a chance. As you see, people in power giving people chances and you see the wonders they do. Just look like the two black men from Liberty City’s writer/director, Barry Jenkins, and writer, Tarell Alvin McCraney, wining the Best Adapted Screenplay. Taking that Oscar to the 305. If you don’t know about Liberty City, well, it is an inner city in Miami, Florida. Lets just say if you made it out of there, you got mad heart. Lots of crimes, drugs and illegal activities over there and not place you see people thrive. For them to thrive that hard, bring joy to my heart. Mad Respect to y’all.

oscars4Some or probably most people in the inner city…wait…let’s just say people in general, need is a chance as to what Barry Jenkins and Tarell Alvin McCraney did; and look at them wining that Oscar. It almost made me cry. You know the stress they have to go to just to survive in Liberty City. I know about Miami and I know they got resiliency in them. I mean, success story like this makes you cry. If you knew the area where they are from, you will definitely cry too. I mean, if you don’t have no kind of emotions for this, you got no heart. Show some love in your heart and get the hatred out your heart, that is real struggle they went through to get to the Oscar. Thank you to the people who gave them a chance. Much love. Oscars giving people equal opportunities now. Salute. Mad Respect. Salute.

This is a big night and a big event. Name of clothes I haven’t even heard oscars5.pngof, but I am willing to learn. I am rooting for the first time nominees as it’s always a good feeling working hard and getting the result. This is sacrificing for your goal and achieving it. Yeah, be happy for them, I know I am. Shout out and respect to Moonlight. Oh man, that made my night. I hope they are giving back and give a chance to the people of Liberty City like the chance they got. Ending with a good note. Chances. Hard work paid off. Believing in yourself. Others believing in you. Getting Chances. Giving back. Caring. Heart.

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