Every day strive to be better. Better at your weaknesses. Everyone has weakness so it is up to you to figure out what is it. It is a big to accept your own weaknesses. And the goal is to improve on them. Write down your goals and put it on your mirror or door. A reminder what you are working towards.
One of my weaknesses is that I tend to care too much. It is okay to care but caring too much for someone can be a crutch to the person and myself. In that case, we both have to help each other to be beneficial for each other. Too much of anything is not good, so this is a prime example of it. I try to care but not over do it. It is hard but that’s life, just got to find ways to find a tool to get better at it.
So find your weakness and try to get better at it one day at a time. It can be any kind of weakness. Maybe it may be you’re out of shape, you can’t dribble with your less dominant hands, you’re not as quick, it can be anything just pick and get better at it. It is like a game once you get better at one thing, I bet you be addicted and want to see other things you can get better at.
Get better at things. Brainy Versatility.
When I write my life experience, mostly is about the good quality you have to have in life that I see in other people. It is mostly about my experience from the heart. It is a way to vent out my thoughts. In life, we all feel down for several reasons. Yes, it hurt, yeah, you might feel down. At the end of the day, you have to get over it and keep it moving. Everything happens for a reason. The most important thing is, to be honest and to act normal; and don’t let it bother you. One bad thing happens because of that incident causes other unfavorable things to happen because you’re not thinking right or your day brings how your mood is. You feel good then your day is going to be good. Bad then your day is mostly likely to be bad. Point of the story is, how you feel is in your mind and it comes to reality. If you have to act normal so be it, because the feeling of feeling bad itself can allow other unfavorable things to happen. It is not easy, I know, but you think positive and positive will happen.
You know when you want something so bad, whether from work, school or achieving a goal; and you keep trying and trying and you feel so close to it? But it’s not yet happening. I mean, IT WILL HAPPEN. Support it. Claim it. You should see my face when I said that, IT WILL HAPPEN..SUPPORT IT…CLAIM IT. I am not playing face. All you need is that someone to believe in you. My opportunity will come and I will be thankful and off to work I go on it. I have this goal of helping people around the world and it is not as easy as it sounds. The feeling of not getting an opportunity makes one feel down. Some people feel down and do nothing just stay there and sink in it. Some eat food and some sleep during this times. At times like this, I want to be left alone to think and see what my next game plan is and who I can get advice from to accomplish this goal. Also, I have to put this in capital letters and BOLD words. JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE HAVING A BAD DAY DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD MAKE SOMEONE ELSE DAY BAD. That is selfish and please find a better way to vent out.
I always make it a point if something doesn’t go my way, that I would not allow that to mess with someone else day. In fact, I want the person’s day I encounter to be good. I don’t want him or her to feel the feeling I was feeling at the time. It is good to vent out in ways that doesn’t affect anyone in a bad way. If you have someone with you that cares about you, it makes the situation better. However, people who genuinely care are hard to find or encounter. Family can help too. You feel better letting it all out in a positive way. For some people, writing and blogging is a form of therapy for them. Use it to your advantage. I am venting now. Don’t get it twisted at my lowest times is when I am the most sharpest which is understandable, because that sharpness is what I use to get out of the situation and find ways to makes things better. In life, there is always a way. Yeah I feel down at a particular time, but am still functioning. You can’t get down too much on things. Things happen in life for a reason; and with events in life, there are good and bad. Take the good from it and learn from the bad.
Yeah, you hurt but you have to show you got heart and keep pushing. Keep pushing. Let it make you work harder. This is coming from the heart and experience. Whatever your goal is, well, just because you haven’t reach it yet doesn’t mean to give up. You don’t give up; this is your passion. You don’t give it up that easy. You better go out there and think of strategies to get better. Fight for it. Fight for what your passion is. I am fighting for mine and yeah, I will get there. There might be bumps on the road, but something worth having in life is worth fighting for. So I am fighting. Thank you all for listening to me venting out. Salute. Respect. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings. We are human, so forget that. Grrr! I want to be tough or am tough. You are human so you have emotions. Just don’t be too emotional. KEEP IT MOVING AND GRINDING. Make people know you serious about your passion. Put some respect on it. Find ways how you can put some respect on it and show people you really passionate about it then act on it.
Show your emotions because its normal. Keep pushing. Respect. Be you. Be Versatile. Believe in yourself. Be Adaptive. Thanks for reading and coming with me on this journey. Brainy Versatility.
ATTACK YOUR GOALS! MOTIVATE YOURSELF! FOLLOW YOUR PLAN STEP BY STEP!
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My personal experience of attacking goals and achieving it.
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Remember when I said keeping working towards your goal. Show them you want it. Ask for advice. Talk to people that have been there. WRITE DOWN your goals. That was what I did. I met my goals. When it happened, I had no feeling…it was weird. I worked hard for this and I saw the results. It is not that I am not excited because it has not sunk in yet. I am really going to go on this path. This Journey. I am going to be helping people around the world. I got a chance. Salute to those who believe in me.
They believed in me when I did not even believe in myself. Not long ago I said be thankful for your opportunity good or bad. I am thankful. Now it is time for me to prepare myself for this journey. You might see me in your country. I had a feeling I was going to get a chance but I do not like to get too happy. My passion is giving light to shine now time to work hard and let the light shine. I will keep those who were with me close because without you all I probably will not be here. I will like to say THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
It has not sunk in yet. I still have some things I have to fix and handle. Time to start better myself more every day. I got my shot and I was under pressure. I clutch my shot. With seconds left, I between the legs and took one hard dribble and went hard in the paint dunk. Got to show people you are serious about your goal or passion. Keep working at it. Do not let anyone stop you. Haters going to hate but use that HATE AS MOTIVATION. Even though most times I was down during this process, I always had my head up and handle my business for the next opportunity. Everything happening so fast but I am handling it. One thing at a time. Shout out to my barber. He gave me that haircut to remember. That haircut was looking fresh. Attack your goal and keep knocking on that door till you knock it down or someone opens it. You got to go for what is yours you know. In a respectful way of course.
Have a mini notebook and jot done things that may help you out. Jot down everything. That is what I did and do. My experience through other experience. Always be prepared and do not go to a situation where you are not prepared. Preparation is the key. Talking to people and communication is a big part of life no matter what. You have to talk to people. Get to know people. Interact with them and have fun. I went after my goal and I got it. The mission is not done yet I have some ways to go but I got a chance. Someone believed in me. Thank you all for reading and taking notes. Special thanks to everyone who has been with me on this journey and the future.
Life is full of surprises. Be open. Be adaptive. Be Brainy Versatility.
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Life experience on sticking to your goals and finishing what you start. Be determine.
When you start something and you do not see the results at first no matter it may be work, business, workouts or anything. Just remember you do not see progress overnight it takes the time to develop. You have to be patient and watch the work you put in show itself. As long as you did all the hard work, the results will come. Just keep pushing at it, one day at a time. I mean, with life itself, progress will come just ask for guidance or find guidance. So stick to it and keep pushing forward.
It is like looking for a job and you cannot find it but you keep looking. When you not looking, that is when the job finds you. You might not get a job somewhere, then later that day you get a job you was not even expecting. I am talking from real life view that I have noticed. Your lowest days supposed to be your best days because that is when you should focus the most. At least for me, it is like that I am more focused and do better when during bad times. I like good days of course. Good days who does not? Think of it like this when it is crunch time that is when you suppose to shine. That is when you suppose to step up or call for the ball and ball out. My blood is pumping right this yeah…it is. I want the ball in that 4th quarter and finish the game.
You start something it may not look good at the beginning BUT don’t give up it will look good. Believe in the process and let your work do the work for you.Trust me, you get in what you put in. Just remember through the good and the bad keep pushing. Stay with it. If you believe in it stay with it. Keep finding ways to get advice or do better. Remember to thank people along the way and make sure you show people you want this whatever it may be. Most importantly, show yourself you want this whatever it maybe. Keep knocking on that wood. I do not know about you, that is what I am doing. I keep knocking and I will get in. Waiting for my chance and opportunity and when it comes. When I get in, they going to this all this persistence and work ethics. In addition, that sticking to what you believe does work.
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Have fun with it. I know you ladies and gentleman know someone who does some of these signs. Some of them are nonsense though. But this is all about FUN. HAVE FUN WITH IT!
So I was scanning through some page on Reddit and I came across with this specific question, “What’s a sign that you should not trust someone?” Since I got time to kill, I began to read most out of the 500 comments listed. In the middle of it, I thought of, why not post this on my blog so y’all can have fun reading. So here are my top 20 signs:
- When they reveal other people’s secrets to you.You just know they will do the same with your secret.
- When you call them out on something minor and they double down on the lie.
- When they’re always talking crap about their friends to you. It’s safe to assume they’re talking shit about you too.
- You notice their opinion changes depending on who they’re around.
- When they tell you consistently to trust them. LOOOOOL!
- My friend taught me, “if someone has to tell you they’re something it’s because they’re not.” To this day I have yet to meet a person, who tells me they’re trustworthy that actually are.
- When they say stuff like this: 95% of my conversations are governed by the realities you described. Empty conversation, day in and day out. The other 5% is when I’m drunk and sloppily telling my social group to shove their hollow words up their rear ends.
- When they want to tell you the story of Darth Plagueis.
- When they say things like: That little fish on the back of their car. Not even one of those people will sell me seafood.
- When you’re gone to Tennessee to train for a new job for six weeks, so you can better support them and in your 3rd week you get a phone call at 9:30 pm from that person sobbing, because they feel guilty about meeting and banging someone on Tinder in your absence.
- If they talk crap about other people all the time.
- If they keep rubbing their hands together, whilst laughing manically. Moustache twirling and Victorian attire are also red flags!
- If they screenshot on Snapchat.
- When they tell you deeply personal things about themselves even though you just met.
- When they start selling the perks of their personality to you and defending themselves in scenarios they relate to you.
- If your dog doesn’t like them.
- When they violate other people’s trust. Red flag!
- If they frequently cancel plans at the last minute. If they see you as such a low priority in their life, you know you can’t count on them when it matters.
- When they abuse people who can’t fight back — rude to food service workers, retail clerks, shy people, or at least rude behind their backs.
Someday, you might be a person who can’t fight back.
- Never trust someone who is constantly telling you other people’s personal crap.
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