The key to overcoming negativity and turning it into an inspirational positive story.

Come and Read about how to turn bad situation into good outcome.

Inspiration ways to have the will to change a bad situation into a positive outcome.

Based on my personal experience and wisdom I learned through life.

In life, you get down. You get weak. You feel like giving up. Especially when something does not go your way. In life, you cannot be weak. In life, let your negative point be your strongest point. I am stubborn even though I won’t really admit it lol. In all seriousness, I use it to my advantage. The stubbornness is where I get the discipline. The will to turn negative into positive. Everyone has the will and it does not have to be stubbornness it can be anything you want it to be to keep you going. It can be family, friends, love one, sports, work, people that keep you going. Anything to help keep your head up.

 When I go through something negative regarding life, school, or anything in particular. YEAH, initially I am sad but I find ways to do better. So next time I will turn that negative experience into a positive one. When you are down, PLEASE don’t stay down. Get up and keep swinging. It makes me sad to see a person down and he or she does not swing. I feel like tears coming down my eyes writing this. Because, where is your heart and will to overcome your struggles? You have to swing. I do not care if you miss at least you swing. The key to turning negative into positive is your will. You saying to yourself: I am going to prove them wrong or prove myself right. It all start with YOURSELF. The moment you decide to turn your negative situation into a positive one is the moment you get a pen with a paper and write down your goals day by day. When you write something down you are more likely to make it happen. Turn something hard into something simple by breaking it down to its simplest term. Don’t make it harder than it is. If your goal is to be happy. Write down what you want and need to make you happy. Then, go after it. It may be hard for you at first but you will eventually overcome the challenge.

Just think about you being a boxing match and you get knock down. What are you going to do? Just lay down? or are you going to give it your all? As long as you give it your all, no matter if it’s good or bad you know you stuck in there and fought. Life is about HEART. If you see my previously posts, you see me talk about HEART a lot. If you have a heart then you can turn the negative into positive easily. If you don’t have heart well fake it until you make it.

This is the life so you can’t be weak. Nothing comes easy. You want it well go get it. You Work+have to have that feistiness to you. The mindset has to be right. You cannot always think negative then think positive will happen. Think positive as much as possible because you are what energy you put around you. If you cannot be positive then be neutral.

For example, I do not like to be too happy because I learned that is not good for me. It is like being too prideful in a way. So, in any situation, I think positively or neutral most of the time. Of course, you will be sad sometimes that is normal just go through the phase get it out your system and get back to work. Work as in going back to attacking life and making it the best you can.

 Get that work in. Turning negative into Positive is not going to happen by you being down on yourself. So get your butt up and do something. Whatever it is you are doing something. Anytime, I feel like a bad day is coming up. I always make it a MUST to go do something outside. Feeling sorry for yourself is not going to make anything better. Go do something productive and fight it away.

The main points to turning a negative thing into a positive one are just having the will, discipline and goal settings to do better. Use the negativity as a tool of motivation to better yourself. In every bad situation, there is always something good in there. Therefore, don’t be down on yourself just soak it in even though it is hard and search, locate and destroy that negativity. Turn that sad pain you having into joy by working hard and setting goals to be better. Everything happens for a reason. Either the reason is going to make you good or bad. That is up to you to decide. Get that burning fire and don’t let anything bad put you so down you can’t turn it into positive.

 

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Having a Positive Mindset in Life No Matter What You are Going Through (Fighting Through It)

fightingthru.pngWhen I write my life experience, mostly is about the good quality you have to have in life that I see in other people. It is mostly about my experience from the heart. It is a way to vent out my thoughts. In life, we all  feel down for several reasons. Yes, it hurt, yeah, you might feel down. At the end of the day, you have to get over it and keep it moving. Everything happens for a reason. The most important thing is, to be honest and to act normal; and don’t let it bother you. One bad thing happens because of that incident causes other unfavorable things to happen because you’re not thinking right or your day brings how your mood is. You feel good then your day is going to be good. Bad then your day is mostly likely to be bad. Point of the story is, how you feel is in your mind and it comes to reality. If you have to act normal so be it, because the feeling of feeling bad itself can allow other unfavorable things to happen. It is not easy, I know, but you think positive and positive will happen.

You know when you want something so bad, whether from work, school or achieving a goal; and you keep trying and trying and you feel so close to it? But it’s not yet happening. I mean, IT WILL HAPPEN. Support it. Claim it. You should see my face when I said that, IT WILL HAPPEN..SUPPORT IT…CLAIM IT. I am not playing face. All you need is that someone to believe in you. My opportunity will come and I will be thankful and off to work I go on it. I have this goal of helping people around the world and it is not as easy as it sounds. The feeling of not getting an opportunity makes one feel down. Some people feel down and do nothing just stay there and sink in it. Some eat food and some sleep during this times. At times like this, I want to be left alone to think and see what my next game plan is and who I can get advice from to accomplish this goal. Also, I have to put this in capital letters and BOLD words. JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE HAVING A BAD DAY DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD MAKE SOMEONE ELSE DAY BAD. That is selfish and please find a better way to vent out.

I always make it a point if something doesn’t go my way, that I would not allow that to mess with someone else day. In fact, I want the person’s day I encounter to be good. I don’t want him or her to feel the feeling I was feeling at the time. It is good to vent out in ways that doesn’t affect anyone in a bad way. If you have someone with you that cares about you, it makes the situation better. However, people who genuinely care are hard to find or encounter. Family can help too. You feel better letting it all out in a positive way. For some people, writing and blogging is a form of therapy for them. Use it to your advantage. I am venting now. Don’t get it twisted at my lowest times is when I am the most sharpest which is understandable, because that sharpness is what I use to get out of the situation and find ways to makes things better. In life, there is always a way. Yeah I feel down at a particular time, but am still functioning. You can’t get down too much on things. Things happen in life for a reason; and with events in life, there are good and bad. Take the good from it and learn from the bad.

Yeah, you hurt but you have to show you got heart and keep pushing. Keep pushing. Let it make you work harder. This is coming from the heart and experience. Whatever your goal is, well, just because you haven’t reach it yet doesn’t mean to give up. You don’t give up; this is your passion. You don’t give it up that easy. You better go out there and think of strategies to get better. Fight for it. Fight for what your passion is. I am fighting for mine and yeah, I will get there. There might be bumps on the road, but something worth having in life is worth fighting for. So I am fighting. Thank you all for listening to me venting out. Salute. Respect. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings. We are human, so forget that. Grrr! I want to be tough or am tough. You are human so you have emotions. Just don’t be too emotional. KEEP IT MOVING AND GRINDING. Make people know you serious about your passion. Put some respect on it. Find ways how you can put some respect on it and show people you really passionate about it then act on it.

Show your emotions because its normal. Keep pushing. Respect. Be you. Be Versatile. Believe in yourself. Be Adaptive. Thanks for reading and coming with me on this journey. Brainy Versatility.