Having a Positive Mindset in Life No Matter What You are Going Through (Fighting Through It)

fightingthru.pngWhen I write my life experience, mostly is about the good quality you have to have in life that I see in other people. It is mostly about my experience from the heart. It is a way to vent out my thoughts. In life, we all  feel down for several reasons. Yes, it hurt, yeah, you might feel down. At the end of the day, you have to get over it and keep it moving. Everything happens for a reason. The most important thing is, to be honest and to act normal; and don’t let it bother you. One bad thing happens because of that incident causes other unfavorable things to happen because you’re not thinking right or your day brings how your mood is. You feel good then your day is going to be good. Bad then your day is mostly likely to be bad. Point of the story is, how you feel is in your mind and it comes to reality. If you have to act normal so be it, because the feeling of feeling bad itself can allow other unfavorable things to happen. It is not easy, I know, but you think positive and positive will happen.

You know when you want something so bad, whether from work, school or achieving a goal; and you keep trying and trying and you feel so close to it? But it’s not yet happening. I mean, IT WILL HAPPEN. Support it. Claim it. You should see my face when I said that, IT WILL HAPPEN..SUPPORT IT…CLAIM IT. I am not playing face. All you need is that someone to believe in you. My opportunity will come and I will be thankful and off to work I go on it. I have this goal of helping people around the world and it is not as easy as it sounds. The feeling of not getting an opportunity makes one feel down. Some people feel down and do nothing just stay there and sink in it. Some eat food and some sleep during this times. At times like this, I want to be left alone to think and see what my next game plan is and who I can get advice from to accomplish this goal. Also, I have to put this in capital letters and BOLD words. JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE HAVING A BAD DAY DOES NOT MEAN YOU SHOULD MAKE SOMEONE ELSE DAY BAD. That is selfish and please find a better way to vent out.

I always make it a point if something doesn’t go my way, that I would not allow that to mess with someone else day. In fact, I want the person’s day I encounter to be good. I don’t want him or her to feel the feeling I was feeling at the time. It is good to vent out in ways that doesn’t affect anyone in a bad way. If you have someone with you that cares about you, it makes the situation better. However, people who genuinely care are hard to find or encounter. Family can help too. You feel better letting it all out in a positive way. For some people, writing and blogging is a form of therapy for them. Use it to your advantage. I am venting now. Don’t get it twisted at my lowest times is when I am the most sharpest which is understandable, because that sharpness is what I use to get out of the situation and find ways to makes things better. In life, there is always a way. Yeah I feel down at a particular time, but am still functioning. You can’t get down too much on things. Things happen in life for a reason; and with events in life, there are good and bad. Take the good from it and learn from the bad.

Yeah, you hurt but you have to show you got heart and keep pushing. Keep pushing. Let it make you work harder. This is coming from the heart and experience. Whatever your goal is, well, just because you haven’t reach it yet doesn’t mean to give up. You don’t give up; this is your passion. You don’t give it up that easy. You better go out there and think of strategies to get better. Fight for it. Fight for what your passion is. I am fighting for mine and yeah, I will get there. There might be bumps on the road, but something worth having in life is worth fighting for. So I am fighting. Thank you all for listening to me venting out. Salute. Respect. Don’t be afraid to show your feelings. We are human, so forget that. Grrr! I want to be tough or am tough. You are human so you have emotions. Just don’t be too emotional. KEEP IT MOVING AND GRINDING. Make people know you serious about your passion. Put some respect on it. Find ways how you can put some respect on it and show people you really passionate about it then act on it.

Show your emotions because its normal. Keep pushing. Respect. Be you. Be Versatile. Believe in yourself. Be Adaptive. Thanks for reading and coming with me on this journey. Brainy Versatility.

National Women’s History Month: Celebrating WOMEN all around the world!

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March is Women’s History Month. This goes back to 30 years ago. National Women’s History Month. A month to honor women’s achievements. To me, it is a month to celebrate all women of all kinds in general. Giving birth is an achievement in itself. That is respect. No man can go through birth. That is #respect. SALUTE. Even though, this is women’s month, they deserve every month of the year to be women’s month. They give birth, care, nurture us from birth to early adulthood. Everyone should appreciate women especially men. Women do so much for men in their lives, they should be appreciated. They have perseverance, caring, good listeners, loving, and inspirational. I mean, women were put on earth for a reason; Be thankful for their creation. Appreciate them because they are one of a kind. Yeah, some might say that some women does not deserve this month, BUT NO ONE IS PERFECT. You don’t know what happened in their past for them to do whatever issue they caused. Women are emotional and they take things to heart, BUT in every woman, she has a special quality in her since she was born; and for that they are appreciated.

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Appreciating women begins from the time you were born. Your mom gave love and care to you. She gave you a bond that is a special and unique kind. From the appreciation you observe indirectly as a baby and kid should translate to appreciating women directly as an adult. Once you are an adult (talking about adult males here) and you find that one woman, you definitely will appreciate women more. How strong they are. How much power they have in encouraging you to live life. Giving you that support and believing in you. Women are distinct and beautiful people. I am thankful. I mean, the way she make you smile, the love she gives, how special she makes you feel, even when you get her mad and do silly things at times. She is still there. Even when you are mad at her, you still want to talk to her. She makes life better. That is special. Reasons like that are why women should be appreciated. The woman I just describe is probably reading this, well she is. Thanks to you and Happy Women’s Month to you and every woman in the world.

I know women’s history month is for women’s equality, achievements, and rights, but you have to appreciate women before all that comes in to play in my mind. Appreciation means Respect. Once you respect someone, then you can build from that. Women history month is for celebrating their notable achievements. I do not like singling out things like this, so in my mind, this month is for all women, all shapes and sizes. They deserve recognition too. So they get it. Appreciate women everyday, even when it is hard to do. Appreciate them. I know I am. Women. Women Power. Women’s month. Celebrating women 365. Thankful.

Take a time to acknowledge the women in your life, a simple thank you will suffice. Come and join my journey by reading, liking, subscribing or commenting on my blogs. Be Knowledgeable. Brainy Versatility.